Twenty Seven Things I Learned Being 27

Twenty Eight & Feelin' Great

Well, not quite yet.

Here we are again, another lap around the sun, another year of learning and another year of still not quite knowing what on earth I'm doing!

Tomorrow, I welcome in my twenty-eighth year of life. I can't believe I've legally been an adult for ten years. These posts seem to come around quicker every single year, I'm two years away from my thirties and I honestly still think I'm twenty one. I suppose that's a good thing though, I think it's good to have a little bit of childishness about you. 

If you're new here, welcome to the yearly tradition on my blog where I tell you about some of the things I've learned in this past year. I know I've been slightly (okay, very) absent on here recently but I couldn't miss the opportunity to write one of my favourite posts. Twenty seven has been a year of career changes, new friendships and amazing opportunities. I got a new job, worked on my self confidence and somehow managed to end up on the BBC (although apparently I don't have a face for television).

So without further ado, here are 27 things I learned in my twenty seventh year!

1. Packing Cubes Are An Absolute Essential

Starting off strong with a top adulting tip from me; invest in some packing cubes. I promise they will literally change your life. I'm the worst when it comes to packing for holidays but they make the process so much easier and the organised side of my brain absolutely loves it.

2. Unemployment Isn't Something To Be Embarrassed About

I spent the first six months of twenty seven searching for a new job after the retail job I had for eight years decided to close down. As someone who'd always had a job, facing unemployment was scary and I'm not going to lie, I was embarrassed. This wasn't about being unemployed but more about what other people would think about me which I realise now is stupid. Trying to find a new career in the current job market is HARD and there's nothing to be ashamed about, keep going and the right job will come up eventually. 

3. Rejection Is Redirection

It's cliche but it's true. Rejection hurts but you just have to trust the process, something better is coming your way.

4. It's Okay To Still Enjoy A Party Over 25

I don't know who came up with the narrative that you are 'immature' if you still enjoy a bit of a party life past the age of 25, but it's propaganda that I will not be falling for. I still absolutely love getting dressed up, going out for a cocktail and a dance, and you best believe you'll still find me in Ibiza when I'm old and grey having an absolute ball. A bit of 90s dance and disco house will always be my vibe!

5. Not Everyone Wants To See You Succeed

It's important to know the difference between the people who want the best for you and those who want to dull your sparkle.

6. Starting A New Job Is Incredibly Daunting

As someone who worked in the same place for eight years, getting a new job and going into a new work environment was both exciting and daunting. If the experience of a new job taught me anything, it's to be authentically yourself and let people accept you for who you are.

7. Interviews Are SUPER Weird

Although I'm not quite sure if they're meant to be? Obviously before I got my current job, I was thrown into the weird and wonderful world of interviews. I won't go into too much detail, all I will say is that being asked about elephants whilst interviewing for a receptionist role was not on my job hunt bingo card.

8. Be Authentically Yourself

Embrace your weird personality, your crazy sense of humour and everything inbetween; it's what makes you special and makes you, YOU!

9. You Are Worthy Of Incredible Opportunities

I've been lucky enough to have some amazing opportunities over this past year and the imposter syndrome has been so real. I've realised that I need to stop being so hard on myself. I'm worthy of every opportunity that comes my way and I feel so grateful to have done some incredible things. I just know 18 year old Meg would be so proud!

10. Take Yourself On Regular Walks

I absolutely love putting my headphones in and taking myself on a nice walk. It's amazing how a bit of fresh air and time in nature can give you such a mental boost!

11. Hearing Yourself On The Radio Is A Crazy Experience

Earlier this year, Loving Arms Dementia Group was chosen to feature on BBC Radio Merseyside as part of their Dementia Week special. As a volunteer, I was interviewed about my connection to the group and what we bring to the community. A few weeks later, the interview was aired and hearing my little voice on the radio filled me with so much pride, although I definitely put my telephone voice on because I don't sound that posh normally. Thankfully the feature got an incredible response, we even ended up on BBC News!

12. Sometimes You Just Need To Mute

And that's totally okay, the mute button is there for a reason.

13. Make Time To Do Things That Make You Happy

It's so easy for us all to get caught up in our busy lives that we forget to take a step back and prioritise doing things that bring us joy. Whether that be treating yourself to a coffee, reading a few pages of a book or taking an hour to watch an episode of a show on Netflix, make sure you're doing things that fill up your own cup.

14. Friendships Will Drift

It's a hard thing to accept but it's important to remember that sometimes people just don't bring anything positive into your life anymore and that's absolutely fine. The best thing you can do is surround yourself with people who align with you and your values. 

15. Just Because You're Alone Doesn't Mean You're Lonely

I will shout this one from the rooftops.

As a happily single girly I'm often asked if I get lonely and the truth is, I don't. I've got the most amazing family and gorgeous group of friends and I'm also really comfortable taking myself on little solo dates too! If there's one piece of advice I'd give for your twenties, it's learn to be comfortable in your own company as well as being around others.

16. Invest In A Good Quality SPF

I promise your skin will absolutely LOVE you for it.

17. If Someone Tries To Dampen Your Achievements, They're Not Your Person

Stay close to the people who cheer for you, even when you're not cheering for yourself.

18. I've Got Absolutely No Interest In Climbing The Corporate Ladder

And once again, that's absolutely fine. It's okay if you don't have the same dreams as everyone else. I mean, it would be pretty boring if we all had the same life aspirations wouldn't it?

19. Don't Lower Your Standards Because Someone Shows Interest

It's very easy to put our rose tinted glasses on and overlook behaviour that goes against our boundaries just because someone has shown a bit of interest and we're debating giving them a chance. Your standards and boundaries are there for a reason, know your worth and how you deserve to be treated. I promise you'll be respected more for it.

20. Climbing Pendle Hill Is So Much Fun

If you're looking for a different weekend activity, I highly recommend taking a trip to Pendle and climbing Pendle Hill. It was one of my favourite days and we did nothing but laugh, although don't be fooled, the trek to the top is much harder than it looks (and it's pretty high too!).

21. The Viral Uniqulo Bag Is So Good

When I say you can fit everything in there, I literally mean everything! 

22. It's Okay To Take A Break

And it's absolutely fine to admit that you're exhausted. There's no shame or guilt in taking a rest day and it's certainly not a waste of your weekend. It's so important to take time to look after yourself.

23. Ibiza Is My Favourite Island

But you knew that already. 

24. The Strawberry Daquiris in Cafe Mambo Are Unreal

They're famous for a reason.

25. You Don't Need A Huge Make Up Collection

My socials are filled with people who have wardrobes full of make up, yet here I am with brushes I've had since I was seventeen and one, maybe two, of every product. This is your reminder that it actually isn't normal to have a wardrobe full of make up and having a small collection of drugstore products doesn't mean your make up looks terrible.

26. Looking Young For Your Age Is A Blessing

I'm well aware that I look young for my age and for years I always hated people pointing it out, it made me feel as though I was a child and knocked me down a bit. Fast forward to now and I think it's a real blessing, you're telling me I'm approaching my thirties and I still look in my early twenties!? I'll take that!

27. Stop Caring So Much

Most of the time, it really isn't that deep.

I can't wait to spend the day celebrating with my loved ones tomorrow.

Here's to 28 and really feeling great!

Lots of Love,

Meg x

Twenty Five Things I Learned Being 25

 

Oh Would You Look At That, It's My Birthday!

Tomorrow I celebrate my twenty sixth year on this planet, I don't look or feel 26 but apparently that's how old I am now. This is such a weird age, I know I'm still classed as 'young' but I've got friends getting married, buying houses, starting families and then I've got friends who are travelling the world and don't even know what they're doing in life. I think I fall in between these two categories; not quite ready to settle down but also feeling the pressure to at the same time. It's either that or the fact that I finished school ten years ago, I'm now closer to my thirties and I still don't have a clue what I'm doing (lol!).

If you've stumbled across my little place on the internet then welcome to the yearly tradition where I tell you about all the weird and wonderful things I've learned in the past year. Twenty five has been a strange yet lovely year; I've made new friends, worked on my confidence and I finally saw Singin' in the Rain live which was incredible. I can honestly say I'm proud of myself this year and it always baffles me that my birthday has come around so quickly.

So without further ado, here are 25 things I learned in my twenty fifth year!

1) Vinted Is The Best Place To Buy Clothes

Yes it's true, I spend most of my time (and money) on Vinted and I have absolutely no shame. The bargains you can pick up on there are unbelievable and I'm not kidding when I say you'll find nicer stuff than on the High Street. I never thought I'd be a Vinted shopper but I am and I'm obsessed! 

2) Prioritise What Is Important

I sometimes find myself feeling overwhelmed and trying to do everything at once so learning to prioritise is really important. This is something that I'm still learning and I'm pleased to say I'm getting better at. 

3) Spin Classes Are So Much Fun

This year I took the plunge, built up my confidence and started a new gym class. I'm the kind of girl who stays in her comfort zone at the gym so trying a new class was slightly daunting. However I'm so glad I did, I absolutely love my morning spin classes. 

4) Appreciate Your Single Years

The way I see it, you'll never have this much time to focus and work on yourself, embrace it. 

5) Rosemary Oil Is Incredible For Hair Growth

Yes, I've jumped on the rosemary oil trend and trust me it is worth the hype. I've been using the Grows-Mary hair oil by Hair Syrup for a few months and my new hair growth is insane!

6) Don't Feel Guilty For Not Going To The Gym

It's okay to skip a gym class if you're not feeling it, there's nothing to feel guilty about.

7) Book Your Holidays With A Travel Agent

Getting a travel agent makes the holiday booking process so much easier. They find you the perfect holiday, always have great recommendations and take care of everything for you. I think there's a sense of nostalgia when booking a holiday with a travel agent, it always reminds me of being younger. 

8) Sometimes You Just Need To Turn The Music Up And Dance

I promise you'll feel better for it.

9) Don't Undervalue Your Creativity

I've noticed that some people are willing to use your creative skills for free. I know how much time and effort creative tasks take so (unless it's on a voluntary basis) don't feel bad for asking for a fee for your time, you've earned it!

10) Apple Refurbished Is Amazing

If you absolutely love your Apple products (as I do) then you need to check out Apple's refurbished section. They have some amazing discounts and the products are basically new.

11) Put Yourself Out There More

It's all about attending that event on your own, talking to those people at your gym class and posting on that Facebook group to meet up with someone new. It's the best and probably the only way to make new pals these days. 

12) Anyone Would Be Lucky To Have You

If someone else can't appreciate how wonderful you are, then that's their problem.

13) The Simpler The Skincare Routine The Better

You know I love all things skincare and I can honestly say the minute I simplified my skincare routine, got rid of all the random serums and creams, my skin really thanked me for it. 

14) If It Challenges Your Boundaries Then It Probably Isn't For You

This one speaks for itself.

15) There's No Need To Rush, Enjoy Where You're At Now

It's so easy to get caught up in thinking about our next move that we forget to appreciate where we are now and how far we've come. It could be a pressure from society that makes us forget that we are still only young and we don't have to have everything figured out yet. 

16) Karaoke Is Addictive

Once I've got up and sang one song, there's no getting me off.

17) You Don't Need To Take On Other People's Problems

I'm not saying that you can't be there to support them but it's important that you protect your own energy and look after yourself too. There's only so many times you can give the same advice. 

18) Think About Your Reaction Before You React

Sometimes the best thing you can do is pause, take a moment and think about the way you react to things. It's important to remember that some things (and people) don't deserve your attention or a reaction.

19) It's Not About What You Do, It's Who You're With

I truly believe that as long as you're surrounding yourself with the right people then you don't need to be doing expensive things all the time, just being around them is fun enough.

20) Celebrate The Little Wins

We're always so quick to celebrate the big wins in life that we forget to celebrate the little wins too. You've done that drive you've always been scared to do? Celebrate it. You saved up to buy something new? Treat yourself. You tried a new gym class? You're smashing it. It's important to celebrate our own little wins and also the little wins of our friends too.

21) You Need A Powder Puff In Your Make Up Bag

If you want flawless under eyes then you need to invest in some loose powder and a powder puff, thank me later.

22) Primark & Aldi Do The Best Make Up Dupes

If you're searching for the best high end make up dupes then Primark and Aldi are the places to be. Not only are the dupes incredible but they're all amazing prices too! The Primark vitamin enriched moisturising primer is an absolute favourite of mine. 

23) No One Has Perfect Skin

Literally everyone has imperfections, flaws and scars. Social media is a lie in so many ways, stop comparing yourself and the way you look to filtered photos on a screen. Remember, lighting is everything in photographs. We're all beautiful in our own way.

24) I Need To Start Giving People A Chance

I need to realise that not everyone is out to get me.

25) There's So Much To Be Grateful For

As I said, it's all about being grateful and thankful for the little things; whether it be random laughter, finding a new outfit you love or a great cup of coffee. Your whole mindset changes when you realise you have something to be grateful for.

I can't wait to celebrate with my family and friends tomorrow.

And so we embark on the next chapter; Here's to 26!

Lots of Love,

Meg x

Twenty Four Things I Learned Being 24

Well, I'm officially in the Over 25's Category

I've made it to the midway point of the weird and wonderful era known as 'your twenties' and to be honest, the fact that I now belong in the Over 25's category on X Factor slightly bothers me. Why did I class myself as old? More importantly why did no one ever want to mentor this category!? We're great! 

If you would've asked 15 year old Meg what she'd have done by 25, I don't think she'd have expected to be where I'm at right now. I probably thought I'd be married, have a house, maybe kids but it's crazy how life works out and those things you classed as important aren't at the top of your priority list anymore. It's all about accepting where you're at and putting your own happiness first.

If you've found my little place on the internet, then welcome to the yearly tradition where I tell you all about the weird and wonderful things I've learned in the past year. Twenty four has been a lovely year; it's been the year of focusing on myself and finally passing my driving test. 

I've been doing these posts since I was 17 and I absolutely love looking back at the life lessons I've learned along the way; seeing not only how my perspective has changed but also how I've grown as a person. 

So without further ado, here are 24 things I learned in my twenty fourth year!

1) Don't Let Other Peoples Opinions Affect you too much

During one of my journalling sessions last year, I realised that I value other peoples opinions waaay too much, whether that be about what I'm doing, what I'm wearing or how I look. I somehow seek this approval from certain people when in reality, my happiness should come first.

2) It's Okay Not to Reply Straight Away

I've always been someone who replies to text messages in 0.25 seconds through fear of people thinking I'm being rude or ignoring them. Truth is, life has gotten real busy again, I don't have the time to reply so quickly anymore and that's okay; it doesn't make me a bad person. You need to take time out for yourself and be present.

3) Doing Things On Your Own Isn't Embarrassing

Being comfortable and happy in your own company is so important. This year I went to the theatre on my own and although it was nerve wracking, I absolutely loved it. At first I thought people would be looking at me thinking 'it's a bit weird she's come on her own' but they were so immersed in their own bubble that no one batted an eyelid. I've been to see Jersey Boys and Waitress and both were amazing. Don't wait for other people to do things with you, go and do that thing yourself and enjoy spending time with YOU!

4) Passing your Driving Test is one of the Best Feelings Ever

When I started learning to drive people told me that the day I passed my test would be one of the proudest moments of my life and I can fully confirm that's the truth. I'll never forget the day I got that pink license, although no one ever prepares you for how weird that first drive on your own feels. 

5) Your Car Tells you What Side Your Petrol Is On

Whilst we're on the topic of cars, did you know that if you look at the petrol sign on your dashboard there's a little arrow that tells you what side you fill your petrol on? I'm probably really late to the party with this knowledge but I'm so amused! 

6) It's Okay to Rewear Outfits

Does anyone else just have this fear that if they rewear the same outfit too many times people are going to think they've got nothing else to wear? I'm really trying to ignore this feeling. I don't need to buy a new outfit every time I go out, I've got plenty of cute clothes in my wardrobe to be reworn and no one is judging me! 

7) I Don't Have to Share My Life on Social Media

If you follow me on my socials you may have noticed that I don't post as much as I used to, whether that be on the grid or on stories. I'm learning that I don't need to document everything I do, it's all about being present in the moment without thinking I've got to get a photo to prove I'm out for tea. What am I trying to prove anyway? I must admit, my life feels a lot more peaceful when I take social media breaks.

8) A Smile Costs Nothing

It could literally brighten someones day. 

9) Olaplex is a Haircare Game Changer

It's true what they say, once you start using Olaplex you'll never go back. It makes my hair feel so healthy, shiny and soft; I'm obsessed! 

10) It's Hard to Make New Friends In Your Twenties

Why does no one ever talk about how lonely your twenties can be? Your friendship circle becomes smaller and smaller as you slowly realise who's worth your time and energy, and although this is good for you, it can feel incredibly isolating. It seems everyone is so busy with their own lives, your friends start moving away, and you just crave those days when you had less responsibilities and could meet up for a coffee after Uni without having to compare a six month schedule. 

11) F&F At Tesco Is Very Underrated

Incredibly underrated!

Why do we all just ignore the fact that F&F at Tesco has some gorgeous clothes!? Very rarely can I go into Tesco without coming out with a cute jumper or dress; I only nipped in for a meal deal! 

12) Other People's Success Doesn't Make You a Failure

It's very easy to sit and compare yourself to others but success comes in different forms. Just because someone seems to be living their most successful life doesn't mean that you aren't succeeding too. The thing is, success means something different to everyone and guarantee there's someone looking at you thinking the exact same thing. GIVE YOURSELF MORE CREDIT!

13) Go for Massages Regularly

I can't even begin to tell you how much I love going for a hot stone massage done, it is ultimate relaxation and it helps with period pain too! It's so important to take some time out for yourself and just chill. 

14) Six The Musical Is Incredible

Mum and I went to watch SIX for the first time last year and it's very safe to say that we are obsessed!
It's the most feel-good show with the most amazing soundtrack, and if at least one of the songs isn't stuck in your head when you leave the theatre then you're lying! 

15) I Can't Function Without My Morning Coffee

I was never a morning coffee drinker, always a Yorkshire tea kind of girl, but now I can't function if I don't have a coffee every morning. How did I ever cope before!?

16) I Avoid Parallel Parking At All Costs

If you're one of those people who confidently reverses into a parking space then I envy you. Unless it involves driving straight through into a space then it's a no from me. Parallel parking? No chance. I'll drive round until a space becomes available. 

17) It's Okay to Have High Standards

If someone isn't treating you the way that you deserve to be treated then tell them, don't lower your standards or settle for anything less than you deserve; both in relationships and friendships. 

18) Don't Doubt Yourself

You're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think! 

19) You Never Know What People Are Going Through

So be kind, always!

20) The Sky Garden is Beautiful

I love visiting London, especially when I get to spend time with one of my best friends Liv. Last time I stayed with her, we went to The Sky Garden and I'm still not over how gorgeous the views of London are! I'd highly recommend visiting if you're planning a trip to the Capital soon!

21) Motorways Are Weird

Yes they freak me out and I have absolutely no idea how people know which lane to be in when you're coming off, BUT I am building my confidence on them and I'm very proud of myself. 

22) Don't Be A People Pleaser

A few months ago someone told me that they could tell I was a 'people pleaser' and if I'm being honest, they're completely right. Although some will say it's a good trait to have, it can often result in your kindness being taken for granted. It's important to remember that it's okay to say no and set your own boundaries. 

23) Embrace Your Natural Beauty

This is something I'm still working on and will continue to learn. I've realised that a lot of the beauty standards thrust upon us are all a filter of how society thinks we should look. Instead I'm learning to embrace and love everything about myself, from my dimples to my acne scars, completely unfiltered. 

24) The Gym is an Act of Self Care

If you feel that going to the gym is becoming a chore, remind yourself that it's actually an act of self-care. It's boosting your endorphins and keeping you fit and healthy. The more you treat going to the gym as an act of self-care, the more motivation you'll have (and the more you'll enjoy it!)

I can't wait to celebrate with my family and friends tomorrow.

Let's make Chapter 25 a great one; Here's to 25!

Lots of Love,

Meg x

Twenty Three Things I Learned Being 23

 

That's the funny thing about Birthdays, they're kind of an annual thing! 

Tomorrow, I celebrate my twenty fourth year on this planet. I can't believe I'm almost half way through my twenties, and I'm really trying not to dwell on the fact that one whole year of that has been spent locked down in a global pandemic. I don't feel old enough to be twenty four, if I'm being honest, I only just feel ready to be graduating (but that happened three years ago *face palm*).

If you've just stumbled across my little place on the internet, then welcome to the yearly tradition where I tell you about all the weird and wonderful things I've learned in the past year. Twenty three has been an emotional whirlwind; from buying my first car and getting my ears pierced, to living through a global pandemic and losing my precious Grandad. It's crazy to think how much can happen in 365 days. 

So without further ado, here are 23 things I learned in my twenty third year! 

1) Getting Your Ears Pierced Doesn't Actually Hurt at All

I've always worn clip-in earrings because I was scared that getting my ears pierced would hurt. I can now fully confirm that it doesn't hurt at all, I didn't feel a thing and I'm already thinking of getting my seconds done (I know, I'm so brave!). 

2) They Always Come Back 

Y'know when you break up with someone and your friends always tell you that 'they'll come back' (cue the eye roll), well it's true! Sometimes it just takes a little while for them to realise what they lost, and it's important that you remember your worth when they do! 

3) Realising Your Worth Doesn't Make You a Bad Person

Following on nicely from my last point, realising your worth and acting on what YOU feel is right does not make you a bad person. If you feel as though they're not good for you any more, accept their apology and move on. It'll probably make people respect you - it's all about those boundaries! 

4) Car Shopping is Complicated

If you didn't already know, I bought my first car! And let me tell you, it's waaay more complicated than it seems; from engines and models to road tax and insurance quotes - I've learned a lot about cars in this past year. Plus, I'm the fussiest person ever so it's a miracle I found something that I love! 

5) Law Of Attraction is a Game Changer

Over the past few years, I've actively been practicing the law of attraction and I'm a firm believer that you can manifest anything you desire into your life. I used to feel embarrassed talking about it, but now I'll openly say that the law of attraction works and it fascinates me!

6) Mom Jeans are Ultimate Comfort

I didn't think anything could take away my love for a classic pair of skinny jeans, yet here I am owning 5 pairs of mom jeans and basically living in them - is this 24!? 

7) It's Okay To Just Do Your Own Thing 

The older we get, the easier it is to compare our lives to the people around us; whether that be family, friends or strangers we see online. Truth is, it's okay to be doing your own thing as long as YOU are happy. Make your happiness a priority. 

8) Mamma Mia is the Ultimate Feel Good Movie

If Colin Firth dancing around a Greek Island doesn't cheer you up, then I don't know what will. I still stand by the fact that there isn't a mood that the 'Dancing Queen' scene can't fix. 

9) York is the Perfect City for a Girly Weekend

As we're all aware, travelling to exotic destinations has been put on hold, but that didn't stop my lovely friend Cyde and I from spending the cutest girly weekend in York. It's the most gorgeous city, with tons of history, quaint cobbled streets and stunning views - I can't wait to go back! 

10) Tell People you love them Everyday

It's pretty self explanatory, so take this as a little reminder to call or text the people closest to you and tell them that you love and appreciate them. 

11) Only Shampoo Your Scalp and not the ends of your Hair

This is a tip I got from the many hours I spent scrolling through TikTok in lockdown and it has literally changed my haircare routine! If you double shampoo your scalp, let the suds run down your hair, and then focus the conditioner on your mid-lenghts/ends it leaves you with soft, shiny hair. Trust me, it's a game changer! 

12) Morning Meditation Changes your Mindset

I was determined to look after my mental health during the most recent lockdown, after watching it take quite a dip last year. I stopped checking my phone first thing in the morning and started meditating for 10 minutes instead. It has had such a positive impact on my mindset, allowing me to stop, breathe and focus on everything I have to be grateful for.

13) It's Okay to not have a Plan

Not to quote Phoebe from Friends, but I don't even have a pla-!

And that's okay! I know it probably seems like everyone around you has a set plan and knows exactly where they're going with their life. It can feel intimidating and lonely, but remember you don't need to know where you're going as long as you're happy with where you're at right now. Everything will always fall into place and opportunities will present themselves when the time is right. 

14) You Don't Always have to see your Friends to know that they're there

It's been a year of long distance friendships; of late night phone calls, Netflix Parties and spending hours on FaceTime & Zoom. It's true what they say, good friends are like stars, you can't always see them but you know that they're always there. 

15) Buying A Car is such a Proud Moment

I'm such a Car Mum now. I treat Minnie the Micra like a child; she's parked at the far end of the carpark so that no one can touch her and the new thrill in my life is buying car air freshener. 

16) It's Normal to Outgrow people who don't Align with you Anymore

It's true what they say; you can feel it when someone doesn't align with your energy anymore. If it feels as though someone is holding you back or a relationship is draining you, don't feel bad for distancing yourself. It's important to protect your energy too, we don't have time for negativity!

17) Biscuit Brew is the Future

Whoever thought to make tea that tastes like biscuits dunked in tea deserves an award. If you haven't tried Yorkshire Tea Biscuit Brew yet, then you need to get on it - it will literally change your life. 

18) Some People don't want to see you Succeed 

There's three types of people in life; those who want you to succeed, those who don't want you to succeed and finally, those who want you to succeed but not as much as them. I've encountered a few of the latter this year and it's hard to understand how someone can have that mindset. Just remember to surround yourself with those who cheer for you, inspire you and encourage you to chase your dreams, no matter how crazy they might seem. 

19) Spa Days are Ultimate Relaxation

I now fully understand why people crave a spa day; the relaxation level is literally off the scale. I left feeling like I was walking on a cloud, I suppose you could say cloud 9. 

20) I love Bottomless Brunch

Okay it's official, bottomless brunch is my new favourite pass time. Drinking unlimited cocktails with my best friends and eating delicious food, seriously what's not to love!? I had my first bottomless brunch at Mason's in Liverpool and I wrote a blog post about it, if you fancy a read. 

21) Focus on What you do Know

I'm an over-thinker and if I let my thoughts get the better of me, I can think myself into the worst mood possible. This is why it's important to ground yourself. Instead of focusing on what could happen, focus on what you do know. For example, if you're overthinking about someone not texting you back, focus on the fact that you do know that they go to the gym on a Wednesday, not that they could be ignoring you. I promise it will completely change your mindset. 

22) Lizzo makes me feel like I can take on the World

Truth Hurts. 

23) There is something Good in Every Day

'Everyday may not be good, but there is something good in every day.' 

It's all about finding little things to be grateful for; from the sunshine coming through your window, a smile from a stranger or wearing a top that makes you feel pretty. The more you appreciate the things around you, the more you attract what you desire. 

I can't wait to celebrate with my family and friends tomorrow.

And so we embark on the next chapter; Here's to 24!

Lots of Love,

Meg x

Twenty Two Things I Learned Being 22

I don't know about you, but I'm feeling twenty threeeee!

It doesn't quite have the same ring to it, does it? 

Tomorrow I turn 23. Firstly, when did I get so old? And secondly, at what point do I stop winging it and actually know what I'm doing? Because honestly, I don't have a clue. 

If you're new here, welcome to the yearly tradition on my blog where I tell you about all the things I've learned as a 22-year-old; I look forward to writing these posts every year. Taylor Swift gave me some very high expectations about being twenty two and it didn't disappoint. It's been one to remember; I travelled to new places, met new friends, reconnected with others, and as always, picked up a few pearls of wisdom along the way. 

So without further ado, here are twenty two things I learned being twenty twoooo! 

1. MacBooks are a Game Changer 

After wanting one for years, twenty two finally saw me treat myself to a MacBook Air and oh my goodness, why didn't I get one of these sooner!? I can finally be that girl who goes into Starbucks and taps away on her laptop with a caramel macchiato by her side!

2. Stop Putting In Effort Where Effort Isn't Received 

I've learned this in many ways but particularly when it comes to relationships. Time and time again, I find myself overcompensating for someone else's lack of effort. I continue to fight for something when there's nothing to fight for and put in all the effort whilst getting nothing back. Any kind of healthy relationship doesn't work that way; if they want to see you then they'll make the effort to see you, it's a two way thing. 

3. Actions Speak Louder Than Words 

In every instance. 

It's pretty self explanatory but I've learned that people say things without meaning them. From now on, until people's actions follow their words, I won't be dwelling on things too much. 

4. I really enjoy going to the Races 

In my first few weeks of being 22, I went to my first ever Horse Racing Event at Haydock. We had an evening of racing, betting and also saw Nile Rodgers and Chic. I absolutely loved it, even though I didn't have a clue what was going on or how to place a bet. My advice? Choose the one with the coolest name or the prettiest uniform. 

5. My Energy is so Important

This past year, I've started to practice the Law of Attraction and I've manifested some really cool things into my life. It's made me more aware of how important my energy is; I attract what I am. Slowly, I'm learning to rid myself of negative energies and focus on the positives. It's definitely given me a more optimistic outlook. 

6. People will Dislike the Good Things about You

You're not going to be everyone's cup of tea and that's okay, just never let anyone dull your sparkle. 

7. I have Toxic Traits too

And that's okay, as long as I'm aware of them and I can work on it. We're not all perfect (unless you're Taron Egerton).

8. It's Not You Job To Fix Him

Or anyone, for that matter. 

I somehow seem to find myself attracting the same kind of person and I feel like I've failed if I've not been able to help someone or fix their problems. I'm not saying this is the case for everyone, but I've realised that some people just don't want to be fixed and there's only so much I can do. 

9. Listen to your Parents Advice 

As much as they can be annoying and sometimes they just don't get where you're coming from, your parents are the only people who truly want the best for you. Plus, they really do give the best advice. I'm lucky to be surrounded by the most amazing people helping, supporting and guiding me every day.

10. I love Amsterdam 

Twenty Two saw me accomplish one of my life goals and take a trip to Amsterdam. I absolutely fell in love with the city; from the history, to the canals, to the museums, to the bars, to the people. I'm already desperate to go back! 

11. I Can't Control A Pedal Boat

Whilst in Amsterdam, Cyde and I thought it would be a good idea to rent a pedal boat and see the beauty of the city from the water. I'd never been on pedal boat before and it was soon established that I can't control one. I don't know what confirmed it more; taking us the wrong way up a one-way canal or crashing us into another passenger boat. 

12. It's a Bad Time not a Bad Life

As I'm writing this, life is a bit strange. I know a lot of us are feeling down right now but things will improve. Remember what I was saying about the Law of Attraction? Your mindset is everything. Don't let one bad day determine how you spend the rest, there's always brighter days ahead. 

13. Double Beds are the Future

At the grand old age of 22, I finally invested in a double bed and it is potentially one of the best adult decisions I have ever made. 

14. Let Other Peoples Talents Inspire You

Don't feel threatened. Just because you admire someone else's ability to do something doesn't take away from the fact that you have talents too! Have a bit more self-belief! 

15. It's Important to have Boundaries 

And stick to them. 

I promise people will respect you more when you put boundaries in place, whether that be in relationships, friendships or at work. If they don't respect you then thank u, next. 

16. Learning to Drive is Actually Quite Fun

Okay, so I haven't passed my driving test yet (thanks corona) but I've realised there's no need to be scared of learning to drive. I'm missing my weekly lessons and chats with my instructor and hopefully this time next year, I'll be driving round in my own little car. 

17. I Hate People who don't Indicate

They're up there with some of the worst people in the world. Just let me get my crystal ball out and work out which way you're going, dickhead. 

18. Stop Chasing Other People's Dreams For Them 

I'm a very supportive person and I'll do anything I can to help people achieve their goals; whether that's a pep talk or helping them out in some way. However, I've realised that sometimes I've got to be a little bit selfish and put myself and my own goals first and that's totally okay. 

19. The Everyman Cinema is Next Level

Whoever decided to combine comfy sofas and a cinema deserves an award. It's an absolute game changer, the Everyman is the best cinema experience you will ever have. 

20. Try To Live with No Regrets

Life is planned and everything happens for a reason, but if you do regret something then it's better to regret something you did than something you didn't do. 

21. The 1975 are just Amazing 

They're one of my favourite bands to see live and I just think they're great. Also, if you haven't listened to If You're Too Shy (Let Me Know) yet, then what have you been doing? It'll put you in the best mood, I promise. 

22. Being Twenty Two isn't really like the Taylor Swift song

But make sure you listen to it everyday in your twenty second year! 

I can't wait to celebrate tomorrow and I'm going to make my twenty third year an amazing one.
Here's to turning 23 - in lockdown!

Lots of Love,
Meg x

Twenty One Things I Learned Being 21

I don't know about you, but I'm feeling twenty twoooo!

Well, not quite yet.
Tomorrow, I welcome in my twenty-second year of life. Twenty-two sounds so old, especially considering I sat my GCSE's six years ago. I suppose it's not all bad though, I can play Taylor Swift on repeat for a whole year and you have no idea how long I've waited to do that.

If you're new here, welcome to the yearly tradition on my blog where I tell you about some of the things I've learned in this past year. Normally I'd sit here and joke about how I've achieved nothing but twenty-one has been so kind to me. It's been a year of success, love and a lot of life lessons. I'm a Creative Writing GRADUATE (!?!), I'm the most confident I've ever been and most importantly, I'm happy.

So without further ado, here are twenty-one things I've learned in my twenty-first year.

1. No Response Is A Response

I've learned this lesson in two ways. The first is that no one is ever too busy - if they care they'll make time. The second is that you don't need to rise to an argument, sometimes it's okay not to have the last word.

2. I really like tea

I've always been a coffee kind of girl but since having afternoon tea at Kensington Palace, I'm becoming quite the tea drinker. 

3. Not Everyone has the same Heart as you

Just because you have respect for someone doesn't mean they have the same respect for you. It's a hard pill to swallow but it's okay, as long as you continue to have courage and be kind. 

4. Graduation is Amazing

Twenty-one saw me finally graduate from University and, not that I bang on about it much, it truly was the proudest, most overwhelming day of my life. I'd like to go and do it all again, please.

5. Hard Work Pays Off

Moving on nicely from my last point, hard work really does pay off. I wouldn't have been stood there in my cap and gown if it wasn't for the sleepless nights, 15 hour days in the library and the support of my family and friends. 

6. I actually don't mind the Gym

This year I invested in a gym membership, much to the surprise of pretty much everyone I know. I was the least sporty kid at school - the one who'd fake every injury possible to get out of doing sport, but *gasp* the gym really isn't that bad. In fact, it's improved my mood so much, I actually look forward to going - who'd have thought it?! I'm a changed woman.

7. Long Distance is hard

I've done my fair share of dating this year and found myself meeting someone who I really fell for. There was just one issue; a three-hour distance between us. We tried to make it work but it was too hard. The late night phone calls, movie dates over face time and long text messages; it was all cute but we both missed that personal connection. It's sad it didn't work out. 

8. There isn't a mood that Take That can't fix

Seriously, if you're feeling down, wack a bit of Take That's Greatest Hits on Spotify (my personal favourite is Everything Changes) and I guarantee you'll be feeling better in no time. It's a great way to start the day. 

9. I love Disneyland Paris at Christmas 

Okay, I love Disneyland Paris anyway but being able to visit during the festive period was the most magical experience of my life. What more could you want than walking down Main Street in the snow? I just loved it. 

10. If someone is meant to be in your life they will find a way back to you

No matter how far they wander. 

11. Bongo's Bingo is next level

I went to my first Bongo's Bingo in March and I loved every second, what better way to spend a Saturday night than stood on a table singing to the Vengaboys? Seriously, I've never experienced anything like it. I loved it so much I'm going again in August and I cannot wait!

12. Honesty and Communication are so Important

Especially in relationships. A lack of honesty and communication leads to mixed signals, trust issues and people getting hurt. Sure I've experienced love this year but I've had my fair share of heartache too. 

13. Flat Shoes on a Night out are Ultimate Comfort

Don't get me wrong, I love dressing up in heels for a night out with the girls but flats are my go-to now. I can dance all night without my feet hurting - where has this miracle trend been all my life!?

14. The London Underground really isn't that Bad

Twenty-one saw me conquer my lifelong fear of the London Underground and now, I'm on and off that tube like nobodies business. I've taken many trips to London this year and I've loved every single one of them. I couldn't live in London though, it's far too busy for me.

15. I want to Travel

There's a whole wide world out there and I want to see it. In the words of Belle, 'I want adventure in the great wide somewhere.' 

16. I get offended when I don't get asked for ID

What? You're telling me I don't look like I'm eighteen anymore? My youth is leaving me behind!!! 

17. Older doesn't necessarily mean wiser

The majority of people are under the impression that if they're older than you, they know more than you. I'm afraid this isn't always the case - don't be made to feel unintelligent just because someone is older (chances are, you probably know more than them anyway). Always be willing to learn. 

18. Psychic readings are fascinating

I know some of you will be sceptical about this sort of thing but I am fascinated. I went for my first psychic reading a few weeks ago and was blown away by the accuracy of the things I was told. The reading brought a lot of clarity and peace into my life and I'm going to go for another reading done soon. 

19. Let it come and Let it go

One of the main messages from the reading was to let things come and let things go. I'm applying this to most things in life but in particular, relationships. I'm done fighting for things that no longer serve a purpose in my life, it's both physically and mentally exhausting. 

20. Ice Cream is the ultimate hangover cure

Don't worry, you can thank me later. 

21. Trust in the Universe 

Since graduation, I've been feeling a bit lost. I don't know where my life is headed and as someone who likes to be in control, that really stresses me out. However, I'm a firm believer that my life is planned and I'm learning to trust in this. Opportunities will present themselves when the time is right, I've just got to have some faith. 

I'm so excited to see what adventures twenty-two has waiting for me and I can't wait to celebrate tomorrow with the people who mean the most. 

I suppose everything will be alright if we just keep dancing like we're twenty-two!

Lots of Love,

Meg x

My 21st Birthday

Since we last spoke, I've turned 21. 

I've been the big 2 1 for almost a month now and believe me when I say that the celebrations are still on-going. I've been on holiday, drank my body weight in gin and celebrated the milestone with my nearest and dearest. The day itself was an emotional whirlwind and I know I'll look back in years to come and smile. 

Before I start, I'm extremely grateful to everyone for their cards, presents and kind words, even Mitch who graced the people of Twitter with my top 21*embarassing* moments. I was really spoilt and a smile didn't leave my face for the entire day. 

I don't know about you but the night before my birthday, I like to stay up til midnight and see the day in. You'll be glad to know that I started my birthday in the traditional way. At 23:57 I hit the play button and danced around my room to 'New York New York' by Frank Sinatra. If there was going to be one song to bring in my 21st year, it was going to be Sinatra. 

 Dad and I went to the rugby the night before, so the screaming and shouting tired me out and I slept really well. I woke up the following morning to Buster jumping on the bed and giving me lots of birthday kisses. I followed him downstairs to find 'HAPPY 21ST BIRTHDAY' banners pinned to every wall and a huge 21 balloon in the corner of the living room. My cards were in a pile next to my presents and my Mum handed me a glass of bucks fizz to start the day off in style.

I sat down in front of the fireplace and opened my cards. I always open my cards first and I received some gorgeous cards with some lovely words written in them. I love a long, emotional speech and reading such nice things about myself from the people who mean the most to me was so heartwarming. I even got a 'To My Big Sister' card from the dog (definitely a highlight of the day). 

I never ask for much for my birthday and this year was no different. There was nothing in particular that I wanted but my family and friends never fail to spoil me and surprise me with the most thoughtful gifts. I feel so incredibly lucky to have people who know me so well. 

My Grandma and Grandad bought me the most stunning rose gold signet ring, something they bought my Mum for her 21st birthday. I promised them that I'd never take it off and I never have. It's the most beautiful thing I own (although quite a few family members now think that I'm engaged). 

My friends supplied the alcohol with various bottles of gin, wine and prosecco to add to my collection. I'm still going through the gin I got for Christmas so I think I've got enough to last me for the next few years. My Mum's close friend bought me a notebook and filled it with goals to complete in my 21st year - it was so motivating and I've already started filling it in. It'll be nice to look back on when I'm older and remember what will hopefully be the most successful year of my life. 

Then, my Mum and Dad. 

I do not deserve them. 

Along with a Pandora Disney charm, my favourite No. 7 foundation, a new Benefit mascara and a bottle of wine, they booked me on a tour around the Coronation Street set. If you follow me on Twitter, then you'll know that I absolutely LOVE the soaps, especially Corrie. Since being a little girl, it's been my dream to go and see the Corrie set so when they surprised me with the tour, I was absolutely ecstatic. 

I thought that was it, but then Mum handed me one last envelope. 

Inside was a card that read 'To Meg, hope you enjoy this as much as we're looking forward to it. Have a fantastic day! Love, Mum, Dad & Buster'. My first thought? They'd booked me driving lessons. My stomach started to flutter as I reluctantly glanced at the piece of paper folded inside the card. My eyes brimmed with tears as I read every little detail. They were taking me back to my second home. We were going back to Newquay! 

I basically rugby tackled them to the floor with all the love and hugs I could manage. It was the best gift I could have asked for. Cornwall holds a special place in my heart and to be able to spend my 21st birthday there was a dream come true. Oh and the best bit? We were going the following morning! 

The rest of my morning was spent packing. Having a holiday unexpectedly thrown upon me meant that I had to plan 20 different outfits, dig to the bottom of my drawer for my bikini and search the shed for my surfboard. It was a lot of effort when I all I could think about was being back on Cornish sand, drinking cider and spending every waking moment at the beach. 

Mum and Dad were going to take me to Haydock Races for the day but after a morning of packing, it wouldn't have been worth it. Instead, we decided to head to the Owd Bard at Bispham for a spot of afternoon tea. It's a huge barn that sells everything you could imagine and at the side is a small café with tables and chairs outside (they do they best scones in the world!). It was so nice to sit in the sun, drinking tea and having a laugh with my Mum and Dad. 

Just down the road from the Owd Barn is Cedar Farm. 

It's a craft farm with something for the whole family; quirky shops, the cutest cafes and even farm animals to feed. I made friends with a baby goat called Truffle and I wanted to take her home with me. It was at that moment that I realised I wanted a baby goat for my birthday. 

Sadly, Mum said no. 

We spent the rest of the afternoon browsing the shops, drinking more tea and feeding the animals, although Mum made sure to keep an eye on me, just to check that I wasn't about to steal Truffle the goat. Cedar farm is such a hidden gem and it would be the perfect place to find a quirky present, I can't wait to go back again soon with Mum (and hopefully see Truffle again too!).

After a very chilled afternoon, we arrived home and started to get ready for my birthday meal. My Mum and Dad had booked for us to go to my favourite Italian restaurant so I made sure to make an effort. I got a lot of comments and questions on Instagram asking about my outfit for the night so I thought I'd link everything on the blog for you! 

I was super last minute with my outfit and I only bought my dress the night before my birthday. It's from Parisian by New Look and gave me all the Love Island vibes. I was reluctant to wear white at first but I absolutely loved my outfit and felt like a Princess for the whole night. My shoes are from Primark but they're just a simple nude heel so you can pick them up from anywhere. My bracelet is from Pandora and my hair was curled with the Mark Hill Pick N' Mix Medium Barrel. 

As I said, we spent the rest of my birthday evening in Quatros, a small Italian near Rainford. There's nothing more important than family and having a meal with my parents and grandparents was the best way to welcome 21. I absolutely love Italian food and there was so much choice on the menu, it was hard for me to pick just one thing. In the end, I opted for bruschetta and penne arrabiata, both of which were SO GOOD! 

As we ate, we watched the sunset over the fields and sang Happy Birthday one too many times. After our meal, we went and sat on the terrace with yet another glass of gin and laughed til our sides hurt. I don't know if that was because of the gin or the fact that my Dad is the funniest human being I know, but either way, I couldn't have asked for a better evening. Classy, funny and happy - just like me! 

After the meal, we went back home, opened another bottle of prosecco and Mum surprised me with my birthday cake. I was expecting a little figure of me stood in front of a Disney Castle with a bottle of gin in my hand. Instead, Mum opted for the gin/prosecco theme and it was even better than I thought it would be - I knew it was going to include gin somewhere. It was really yummy too!

We sang Happy Birthday for the 21st time (I'm not even joking) and I made my special birthday wish and before you ask, I'm not telling! 

I can't believe I'm 21. 

I really had the best day ever and I can't thank everyone enough for their kind words, presents and cards. It was a day full of laughter, love, happiness and gin - all the things I'll ever need in life. I feel so blessed to have such wonderful family and friends around me, especially my Mum and Dad who did everything they could to make the day as special as it was. 

This time next year, I'll be bombarding you with Taylor Swift lyrics! 

Here's to 21!

Lots of Love,

Meg

xxx