12 January 2020

My 2020 Resolutions

Happy 2020!

It's my first blog post of the year and let me tell you, it feels good to be back. I hope the new decade is treating you all well and that you're feeling inspired and motivated to make it wonderful. 

We had a lovely New Years Eve, it was a quiet one but I welcomed it in with hotpot and a glass of gin whilst dancing round the living room with my Grandma and Grandad. I couldn't have been happier and I like to think I've started the year as I mean to go on. This first week has consisted of coffee dates with friends, getting back into the gym and I'm finally taking driving lessons seriously (yes kids, stay off the roads!). So, you could say 2020 has been kind to me so far. 

I don't know about you but I absolutely LOVE this time of year. It's the excitement of new beginnings, new adventures and new relationships. Seeing peoples motivation to reach their goals makes me feel so inspired so I thought I'd share some of my goals for 2020 - it'll be fun to look back on and see how much I've achieved. Plus there's nothing like New Year motivation; a feeling I only get on January 1st and my Birthday. 

My 2020 Resolutions 

1. Pass My Driving Test

Oh look, another year and I still haven't passed my driving test. Well, that's changing because guess who had her first proper driving lesson last week? This gal! I'm finally taking lessons seriously and I'm determined to have passed my test by the end of the year. I can't take another twelve months of delayed trains and buses, it's the bane of my life. 

2. Buy A Car

After I've passed my test I would like to buy my own little car. I think 2019 made me realise how much not having a car was holding me back in both my career and in relationships. I don't wan't to be one of those people who passes their test and then doesn't continue to drive, plus I'm already planning my road trip playlists. 

3. Get My Ears Pierced

Yep, you read that right, I don't actually have my ears pierced. The earrings you see in most of my photos are clip-ins and seeing as I wear them every single day, I think it's about time I get it done. I've always put it off because I was too scared but it's a new decade and I'm facing my fears. 

4. Travel Somewhere New 

Last year I was determined that I was going to Amsterdam and I got there and I loved it. However, this year there isn't a specific place on my travel list, I simply want to see somewhere new. From Barcelona to Budapest to New York to Copenhagen - I haven't got anything booked yet but I can't wait to see where this year will take me. 

5. Spend Less Time On My Phone

Last year I became more conscious of how much time I was spending on my phone. I'd be awake at 2am scrolling through twitter and it was having a drastic effect on my mood. So, I've taken advantage of the Screen Time option on my phone and I'm making a conscious effort to spend less time with my eyes on a screen and more time appreciating the people and things around me. Hopefully I'll feel happier for it too!

6. Write More 

Whilst studying at university, writing became a chore. I grew to hate it and associated it with stress. Recently, I've been reading my old writing journals and I've decided I want to find my love for writing again. I do have a talent there, I just need to start believing in myself. 

7. Focus On Self Love

I've got a blog post about this coming soon but last year, I found myself focusing so much on other people and relationships that I was neglecting myself.  I lost my sparkle and I promised myself that this will be the year I get it back. I'm all about self love; if something isn't making me happy, it isn't worth my time. 

8. Do More Of What Scares Me 

I'm fed up of being so scared of everything. I'm scared of learning to drive, getting my ears pierced and even moving forward in my career. I get comfortable very quickly and I've realised I need to push myself out of my comfort zone if I want to experience anything worthwhile in life. I was lucky enough to meet someone last year who helped me find my more rebellious, fearless side and I'm channelling her into this new decade! 

9. Balayage My Hair

I feel like the main theme for 2020 is transformation. I've never dyed my hair before because I'm very protective over it but this summer, I'd like to switch things up a bit. I'm thinking of having a natural balayage put through my hair and although it doesn't sound drastic, it's a big step for me! 

10. Switch Up My Wardrobe 

Admit it, there's no better feeling than the confidence of going out in a new outfit. I want to be more daring with my fashion choices and buy things I wouldn't usually wear. It's all about self-love, self-acceptance and a little bit of confidence! 

But most of all, I want to be happy, healthy and loved; genuinely, intensely, consistently. 
Here's hoping that 2020 is going to be another lovely year and the start of a decade to remember! 

Lots of Love,
Meg x





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31 December 2019

2019 │The Highlights

Happy New Year Everyone!

After the whirlwind that was 2018, I knew that this year was going to be a quiet one because in my eyes, nothing could compare. Nevertheless it's been fun; a year full of adventures, laughter, romance, heartbreak and, as always, a lot of life lessons along the way. 

If I'm honest, 2019 has been one massive blur. It's December before we know it and I feel like I've spent the majority of the year trying to find out who I am and where I slot into the confusing puzzle that is life. I've travelled to new places, made lots of new friends and even had afternoon tea in Royal Residence. I've watched myself overcome so many obstacles and I'm flourishing into a confident, independent young woman who's ready to take on the next stage of her life. 

And just like that, we're going into a new decade. 2020. 

Tonight I'll be celebrating a decade full of success, love and magic with my nearest and dearest, and a bottle of gin. This time next year, I hope I'll be telling you about 12 months of adventures, happiness and success (hopefully passing my driving test) but for now, I'm going share some of my highlights of 2019.

The 1975 


I started the year in London which is where I seem to have spent the majority of the first half of 2019.
In January I went to see the 1975 at the O2 Arena with my best friend Liv and they were absolutely out of this world. Not only are they my favourite band but getting to see them perform live at the O2 was an experience in itself; a real dream come true. We jumped around and sang all night, there really is no better feeling than hearing some of your favourite songs performed live. Truly, it was the perfect way to kick the year off in style.

Kensington & Afternoon Tea at Kensington Palace


February was a strange month. I experienced a little bit of heartbreak and spent a lot my time trying to get back to my old fun-loving self.

This was helped by a girly weekend trip to London with my lovely Mum. We stayed in Kensington and explored everything that the district had to offer including my first trip to Harrods which was beyond my wildest dreams. Whilst we were there we also took a trip to Kensington Palace, saw the Princess Diana Dresses Exhibition and stopped for a spot of afternoon tea, which was an experience I'll never forget. I felt like a Princess the entire weekend and I wrote a whole blog post about it, if you fancy a read.

Cornwall


February also saw us take our annual family trip to Newquay or as I like to call it, my home away from home. As most of you know, Cornwall holds a special place in my heart and every time I visit I leave a little part of me there. It's where I'm at my happiest. We spent the week in beautiful sunshine doing coastal walks, browsing the boutiques and running along the beach with Buster. And yes, it is February, the sky really was that blue and it is as warm as it looks.

A Night At The Florist


March was incredibly busy, it was a month of celebrations, making new friends and reconnecting with others.

I started the month by taking a trip to the Florist in Liverpool with one of my close friends Francesca. We met in High School and we've been friends for almost eight years but we lost contact when our lives got busy and we embarked on the blur that was University. However this year we decided to go for coffee and it was like we'd never stopped speaking - you couldn't shut us up and that to me is a sign of true friendship.

We planned a cute girly night in Liverpool where we got dressed up, went to some very snazzy bars and drank some very lovely cocktails. It was one of my favourite nights of the year and although it only seems small, it was a true highlight.

Mum's 60th


Then the celebrations started. My best friend, also known as my Mum, turned 60. I know, she doesn't look a day over 21. It was the most special day spent with wonderful people and trust me when I say, she treasured every second. We had afternoon tea, a big meal with the family and then I whisked her away on a special trip to London to see...

Phantom of the Opera


Mum absolutely loves going to the theatre and her favourite musical is Phantom of the Opera so as a special treat for her birthday, I booked us tickets to see the show in London. It was my first time seeing it and I must say, everything about it was beautiful. Mum cried when she opened the tickets and cried during the show but they were happy tears and it's safe to say that her 60th is definitely one she'll remember. Although, Phantom is going to be a hard present to top next year.

You'll be glad to know that's last trip to London for the year but March didn't stop there. I met some lovely new friends and went to my first ever Bongos Bingo in Manchester which is up there with my favourite nights of the year. It was non stop laughs and my childhood dreams came true when Lee Ryan and Simon Webbe from Blue made a special appearance - I'm still in shock to be honest. 

Good Friday Derby


In April I went to my first ever Saints Vs Wigan Good Friday Derby. As most of you know, I took quite an interest in rugby league last year and that has continued into 2019. The Good Friday Derby is one of the biggest games in the rugby league calendar and as my first, it didn't disappoint. The sun was shining, the atmosphere was electric and to top it off nicely, we won. 

Turning 22 & Ghetto Golf


And then I turned twenty two, the age I've been dreaming of since Taylor Swift wrote a song about it. My birthday was one of my favourite days of the year and as always, my family and friends treated me like a princess. I had a super chill day, went for a meal with the family and then extended the celebrations at Ghetto Golf with my friends where we had the most hilarious night. 

I don't know about you, but I'm feeling twenty twooooo! 

The Races and Nile Rodgers & Chic


The birthday celebrations continued with a trip to Haydock Races to see Nile Rodgers and Chic. We spent the evening placing a few bets and dancing in the late summer sunshine to the grooviest of tunes. It was my third time seeing Nile Rodgers and Chic but I love them more and more each time. I leave their shows feeling so happy and literally dancing down the streets. They're amazing!  

Finishing Roaccutane! 


It wouldn't be my 2019 highlights post if I didn't mention the fact that I finished my course of roaccutane. I won't go into it too much because there's a whole post about my experience on the blog but all I will say is that I'm so confident and for the first time in my life I feel beautiful in my own skin. It truly has worked miracles and although it was tough, it's one of the best decisions I made this year.

Dad's 60th


July was also a month of celebration as my Dad turned the big 60 too. He truly celebrated in style and somehow made his celebrations last for the whole month. It was a time for family, friends and lots of laughter and I know he had the most wonderful celebration. I don't say it enough, but I'm so proud to call them my Mum and Dad.

Amsterdam 


This summer was by far one of the most amazing summers of my life. I finally ticked something off my bucket list and went on a long-awaited trip to Amsterdam. If you read my 2019 Resolutions, you'll know that this was one of the things I really wanted to do this year and I'm so glad I did. I wrote a post all about our adventures in Amsterdam, including me crashing a pedal boat, so all I'm going to say is that the trip was a real dream come true, we met the most wonderful people and I left a piece of my heart in Amsterdam.

Amazing Blog Opportunities


This year I've been incredibly fortunate to have the most amazing blogging opportunities. Not only have I made friends for life but I've been given the opportunity to attend bar launches and work with brands I could only dream of. It still baffles me that people read my rambles on here but I'm so glad that you do, it really does meant the world to me and I'm so grateful for every opportunity that presents itself. 

Super League Grand Final 


As I said, 2019 saw me continue my interest in rugby league. My Dad and I spent the majority of our Friday nights watching the Saints and cheering them on from wherever we could. This year we made it to the Grand Final at Old Trafford and WE WON!!!! It was one of the most stressfully amazing days, the atmosphere was electric and I still smile just thinking about it. 

Not only has it been a crazy season for Saints, its also been a pleasure to go to the games with my Dad. I absolutely love our father-daughter rugby evenings and I already can't wait for the new season to start! 

Christmas Party


Fast forward to December and it was finally Christmas party season. This year, our work party was Hollywood themed and it was such a fun night. It was the chance to twirl round in a pretty long dress and wear lot of sparkles so as you can imagine, I was in my element. I absolutely loved everything about the evening from the decor to the music to the company. It's going to be a hard one to beat next year!

Family 


My family have played a huge part in making 2019 as successful and wonderful as it has been. If it wasn't for their constant support, optimism and advice I don't know how I would've made it through the year. They've helped through the hard times by making me laugh when I wanted to cry, given me the best advice on all my dramas and they constantly remind me of my worth - even my little partner in crime who's always there with a cuddle. I'm truly blessed with the best and I look forward to entering the new decade with them.

Friendship 


If there's one thing I'm proud of this year, it's my friends. They're all doing amazing things; one of them has moved to China to pursue her dreams, another is a little clever clogs doing a Masters Degree and others have finally graduated from University. These guys are my personal cheerleaders, constantly picking me up when I'm down and making me howl with laughter when I don't even feel like smiling. I'm thankful for every single one of them, for all the laughs, the tears and the impromptu nights out. They're just wonderful and I can't wait to see what 2020 brings for us all.

Overall, it's been chilled year but a good one. It's taught me a lot about myself but I'm thankful that I'm still healthy and that my family are too. I feel so lucky to have had such wonderful experiences, amazing opportunities and met some absolutely beautiful people. I'm walking into 2020 grateful, happy and motivated to make it not only a successful year but a successful decade. 

I hope you all have a fantastic New Year and that 2020 is filled with love, happiness, health and a little sprinkle of pixie dust!

Lots of Love,
Meg x





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